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Confidential Resources

Help exists for every situation in this report.

Whether you are worried about your own use, concerned about a child or partner, or struggling with thoughts you have not told anyone about — confidential support is available. Many of these services are free.

Local · San Francisco Bay Area

In the Bay Area? See the local resource directory.

Stanford's Addiction Medicine clinic explicitly treats pornography addiction. Plus CSAT-certified Bay Area therapists, hospital programs, peer-support meetings, and university counseling.

Featured Program · Sponsored

HOPE Program

Established 2008 · California

Outpatient mental health agency offering evidence-based, affordable treatment across California — including a specialized program certified by the California Sex Offender Management Board.

Programs offered

  • Adult Sexual Behavior Program
  • Substance Use & Concurrent Disorders
  • Trauma Program
  • Mood & Anxiety Disorders
  • Domestic Violence Program
  • Youth Forensic Services
  • Anger Management

Clinical approach

  • Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Individual, group, and family counseling
  • Psychological evaluations and risk assessments
  • Relapse prevention planning
  • Specialized tracks for developmentally delayed and dual-diagnosis clients
  • Telehealth and in-person sessions

16 California locations

  • Capitola
  • Concord
  • El Cajon
  • El Cerrito
  • Escondido
  • Hayward
  • Merced
  • Modesto
  • Moreno Valley
  • Salinas
  • San Diego
  • San Francisco
  • San Luis Obispo
  • San Mateo
  • Santa Maria
  • Stockton

This is a paid placement. Inclusion as a Featured Program is editorially independent of the research presented elsewhere in this report. See the About page for editorial policy and the Get Help page for the full list of unaffiliated, free helplines.

If you are in immediate danger

Emergency contacts

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. The contacts below are for crisis support and suicide prevention.

  • 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline

    United States

    Free, confidential 24/7 support for people in distress, including those struggling with compulsive behavior and shame.

    Call or text 988

    Visit website
  • Samaritans

    United Kingdom & Ireland

    24/7 listening support for anyone struggling, including emotional crises related to compulsive sexual behavior.

  • Crisis Text Line

    US, UK, Canada, Ireland

    Free, 24/7 text-based crisis support from trained counselors.

    Text HOME to 741741 (US/Canada), 85258 (UK), 50808 (Ireland)

    Visit website
Help with pornography use

Recovery from problematic pornography use

If your pornography use feels out of control, evidence supports both professional treatment and structured peer support. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy have the strongest evidence base.

  • SAMHSA National Helpline

    Free

    United States

    Free, confidential 24/7 referral service for mental health and substance use issues, including behavioral addictions.

    1-800-662-4357

    Visit website
  • Find a CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist)

    International

    Directory of clinicians specifically trained to treat compulsive sexual behavior, maintained by IITAP.

  • Dr. Jerel Armstrong, Ph.D. — Forensic Psychology

    San Francisco Bay Area · CA PSY27272

    Forensic psychology practice offering clinical evaluation and treatment for hypersexuality, compulsive sexual behavior, and paraphilic disorders. Uses validated assessments (Static-99R, Stable-2007, AASI-3, PPG) and provides expert testimony. Adults and juveniles. Useful when a formal diagnostic or forensic evaluation is needed alongside or instead of self-directed recovery.

    (628) 399-1748

    Visit website
  • Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA)

    Free

    International

    12-step fellowship for those wanting to stop addictive sexual behavior. Free meetings, in-person and online.

  • Sexaholics Anonymous (SA)

    Free

    International

    12-step program with a specific sobriety definition. Research shows step advancement predicts reduced compulsive behavior.

  • r/PornFree

    Free

    Online

    Peer support community focused on quitting pornography. Less rigid than abstinence-only forums; emphasizes harm reduction.

  • Fortify (by Fight the New Drug)

    International

    Science-based recovery app with educational modules and progress tracking. Non-religious.

Help with sexual interest in minors

Confidential support before harm occurs

If you are concerned about your own sexual thoughts or behavior involving minors, confidential and legally protected help exists. Seeking help is not the same as offending. The resources below are designed specifically for prevention.

  • Stop It Now!

    Free

    US · UK & Ireland · Netherlands · Australia

    Free, confidential helpline for anyone concerned about their own thoughts or behavior toward children, or someone else's. Operated by the Safer Society Foundation (US) and the Lucy Faithfull Foundation (UK & Ireland), with sister programs in the Netherlands and Australia. Seeking help is not the same as offending.

    US: 1-888-773-8368 · UK/IE: 0808 1000 900 · AU: 1800 01 1800

    Visit website
  • Prevention Project Dunkelfeld (Don't Offend)

    Free

    Germany

    The most studied primary prevention program in the world. Free, medically confidential treatment combining behavioral therapy, sexual medicine, and pharmacological options.

Parents and families

Support for parents, partners, and families

If you have discovered concerning behavior in a loved one, or want to begin proactive conversations with your child, these resources offer evidence-based guidance.

  • Culture Reframed

    Free

    International

    Free, research-based parent courses (Program for Parents of Tweens, Program for Parents of Teens) on pornography's impact and family conversation.

  • Internet Matters

    Free

    United Kingdom

    Practical, parent-focused guides on setting up parental controls and having age-appropriate conversations.

  • NCMEC CyberTipline

    United States

    Report online exploitation of children, including grooming, sextortion, CSAM, and online enticement.

    1-800-843-5678

    Visit website
  • Take It Down

    Free

    International

    Free NCMEC service that helps minors remove or stop the spread of nude or sexually explicit images of themselves taken before age 18.

  • Recovering Couples Anonymous

    Free

    International

    Peer support for couples affected by compulsive behavior in one or both partners.

Survivors of abuse

Support for survivors

If you have experienced sexual abuse, or had intimate images shared without your consent, these organizations offer confidential, trauma-informed support.

  • RAINN (National Sexual Assault Hotline)

    Free

    United States

    Free, confidential 24/7 hotline for survivors of sexual violence, including online abuse and image-based abuse.

    1-800-656-4673

    Visit website
  • Cyber Civil Rights Initiative

    United States

    Crisis helpline and removal support for victims of non-consensual intimate imagery (including deepfakes).

    1-844-878-2274

    Visit website
  • Revenge Porn Helpline

    United Kingdom

    Confidential support for adults experiencing intimate image abuse, including AI-generated deepfakes.

    0345 6000 459

    Visit website
  • NSPCC Helpline

    United Kingdom

    Free, confidential 24/7 support for anyone concerned about a child's safety.

    0808 800 5000

    Visit website

Important notes about this list

  • This site is informational. It does not provide medical, legal, or therapeutic advice.
  • Contact information is current to the best of our knowledge as of February 2026. Hours and availability vary; visit the organization's website to confirm.
  • The confidentiality of each helpline is governed by that organization's policy and applicable mandatory reporting laws. Most prevention helplines explicitly do not require identifying information.
  • If you are aware of a child who is being harmed, please report immediately to local authorities or, in the United States, the NCMEC CyberTipline.